1/2 cp. butter
1/2 cp. buttermilk (or 1/2 cup milk with 1/2 tsp. vinegar-sit for a minute)
1 tsp. of coconut flavoring (vanilla works great too)
1 cup of sugar
1/2 tsp. baking soda
Heat buttermilk on med. heat, then add butter and sugar. Boil for two minutes, take off heat, and add flavor and baking soda. Stir well and let sit.